After the Heartbreak

Too often people feel like after a heartbreak all hope is lost for love. I used to feel the same way. However just because someone hurt you, that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you, or you’re damaged goods, or that you will never find love. Quite the opposite actually.

Experiencing heartbreak can cause you to have a better outlook on relationships and love. It can cause you to really value when you truly have a good person in your life. You’ve been so wounded that now you can truly appreciate having someone around who really treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Now you’re more aware of what you don’t want and what you are not willing to settle for, and don’t be afraid to express that in dating.

Every experience is a lesson, and we have to learn to view things that way. Don’t focus on what went wrong in every relationship, but instead focus on what you learned from that relationship. Apply that wisdom to present day. Don’t make the same mistakes that you made in the past. Pray about it, and tell God what you desire in a mate. Everyday won’t be perfect, but with prayer, hard work, commitment, and honesty, it will work.

Love can and will come after heartbreak. Everyone is not the same, so don’t give up. Write the vision and make it plain. Write out what you want and give it to God. Watch Him move on your behalf. Trust Him with it.